better...
well, I can say my relationship with my mom is getting better and better these days...
dulu....kalo mau ngomong something buntutnya jadi teriak-teriak and never had a nice ending...now I know..one of us has to grow up, I can't change my mom, it's her nature to be bossy all the time and everybody has to obey her words.. so yeah..I try to change my tactics... I try not to get too emotional when I try to explain something to her, always try to make her understand and if it is not possible, I just call my dad and ask him talk to my mom so I don't have to get to deeper annoying conversation and it works.... our relationship is better, no more fight and hurting each other feeling, what we have now just an ordinary relationship of mother and daughter... Since I live far away from her , I miss her so much and I know there is no point to raising each other voice. And guess what I feel better and I know I've grown up.
^^
dulu....kalo mau ngomong something buntutnya jadi teriak-teriak and never had a nice ending...now I know..one of us has to grow up, I can't change my mom, it's her nature to be bossy all the time and everybody has to obey her words.. so yeah..I try to change my tactics... I try not to get too emotional when I try to explain something to her, always try to make her understand and if it is not possible, I just call my dad and ask him talk to my mom so I don't have to get to deeper annoying conversation and it works.... our relationship is better, no more fight and hurting each other feeling, what we have now just an ordinary relationship of mother and daughter... Since I live far away from her , I miss her so much and I know there is no point to raising each other voice. And guess what I feel better and I know I've grown up.
^^

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